Saturday, May 18, 2013

prayers, please

I got a phone call from my sister telling me it was a good thing I wasn't at Trail Days when she enlightened me to this news:

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Essentially, an elderly individual had a medical issue behind the wheel and drove into today's parade. Several were injured.

Pray for everyone in attendance, injured or not. This is a hard time for everyone. I have not heard from Tina either.

No one shot a gun and no one ran the car intentionally so this won't get crazy media attention, but people are hurting just the same and need to know they are loved.

UPDATE - Tina is fine.

Additional articles:

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Friday, May 17, 2013

countdown to the finale [newlywed game]

Sean and I don't have tv service. We do, however have hulu plus which we use to keep up on The Office together (and I keep up with Hart of Dixie and Beauty and the Beast cuz I'm a geek like that). I've been in tears at the last few episodes realizing the end is in sight.

As I looked up spoilers for tomorrow's Office finale, (horrible, I know!), I realized the same fate is quickly approaching for my beloved Newlywed Game. Whatever will I do with my Fridays when this is gone? Thanks again to Karla and Veronica for this awesome and fun soon-to-be pastime and to Halie this week for coming up with the questions!




1. Which one of you (you or your spouse) can go without a mirror the longest?
Bekah – Sean. I could never be secure dating a metrosexual/prettier-than-me guy.
Sean – I don’t wear makeup, I’m able to comb my hair without using a mirror, and I only trim my facial hair every 5 days or so.

2. Do you have a picture of your spouse in a unique place (for example.. in the car, in the wallet, in your purse, in the bathroom?) and if so, where?
Bekah – hahahaha! I am so going to put one in the bathroom and see if he notices. The only thing I can think of is I made a photo collage as a gift when we were dating. It is hanging now in our walk in closet cuz our apartment is tiny!
Sean – Same answer, the one in the closet that includes us at her first Notre Dame-Navy game at Ravens stadium.

Took the picture as is. Yep, all crooked and forgotten in the back corner...



3. Complete the sentence.  "My spouse has more _________ than anyone else I know!"
Bekah – sexiness!
Sean – Stop it, lies. She has more needs for back pops/adjustments and “tummy rubs”.

4. Think back to your very first kiss with your spouse.  How do you think your spouse would describe that kiss in one word?
Bekah – quick?
Sean – She might say rushed. I was nervous.
Bekah - awww. didn't know that.

Enter obligatory kissy photo that is definitely not our first kiss (engagement pic)

5. Which one of these would your spouse say they are "ruled" by: Their heart, their mind, or their stomach?
Bekah – heart and tummy!
Sean – Heart first with mind a super close second.

6. What will your spouse say attracts the most attention toward you when you are in a large crowd?
Bekah – My boobs or my height probably. Or maybe my hair. I’ve been known to get recognized (by people who know me) from long distances.
Sean – She would likely say height or smile. I would say belching gets her some attention!

7. Without looking it up or asking....what is your spouse's zodiac sign? 
Bekah – Cancer
Sean – I thought it was the ram thing but she said wrong. Then I remembered Virgo.

8. What is the last food item that you both shared in bed?
Bekah – ummmm…no. we have glasses of water by the bedside and MAYBE a piece of candy, but we don’t eat in bed.
Sean – Water.
Excuse the ugly furniture. There's my beloved Ariel cup again! 

9. What would your spouse say is the first thing that you did on a date that showed them what you were REALLY like?
Bekah – I have no idea. He asked me to burp in front of him to demonstrate I was comfortable around him (oh yeah, I can out belch his guy friends. He can’t shut me up now) but I don’t generally do that on dates.
Sean – Probably when she came to a family party at my Aunt Kim’s.

What we're really like is plain ol' crazy...Disney circa 2007. Of course we aren't threatening family with fake Norwegian weapons...

10. What did your spouse say they wanted to do more than anything before you were married? Anything?
Bekah – Afford to live as a married couple? Idk.
Sean – I’m taking the question as what she wanted as a personal accomplishment for her. I would say graduate and have a full time job. She graduated with a very high GPA and honors, but that didn’t garner her a job in her field unfortunately.

Yep. All those cords for nothin'. Sigh.




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Tuesday, May 14, 2013

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he did it!

I rarely post about my weekends because I rarely have one to enjoy. This weekend, my baby brother graduated college, which of course was non-negotiable! I took the weekend off and Sean and I headed down to VA for a (mostly) relaxing weekend!

We get very little quality time together with our work schedules, and I feel like we are already rushing. My brother had a Saturday morning graduation, so it was nice to slow down and take our time with traveling.

We started off with some quick errands and eating qdoba burritos in the car while we had an oil change. We were on the road about two hours later than originally planned, but oh well.

The downside to living near major cities is the highways affiliated with them. After driving on the beltway and a very backed-up 66, I jumped at the chance when we stopped for gas and realized the exit we'd taken was the one for Skyline Drive. This is yet another thing I have never experienced despite growing up in the area. We paid our $15 and enjoyed 60 miles of beautiful awesomeness! (The whole thing is 125 miles, but we were staying with family and thought it would be rude to arrive too late!)






We ended up arriving in Roanoke around 7 where we stayed the night with Sean's dad and family. We were in bed after a nice Jamaican dinner and too much sports on TV (darn men!).

The next morning it was back on the road for a much shorter (1 hr) drive to Lynchburg where my baby brother graduated from Liberty!

Crowded much? 

Before ever finding my parents during all this, I found my youth pastor and then brother!

Instead of calling names during the formal ceremony, they just did all the formalities and broke off into smaller ceremonies by program throughout the day.


We found this beauty hiding in the stairwell of his dorm. One last pic after packing him up!

Saturday called for storms which thankfully held off. We had a pretty nice graduation day. Then it was back on the road...where the storms found Sean and I in the last 2 hours of our (not as pretty as Friday!) drive. Oh, well. All arrived home safely.

Congrats, brother!


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Monday, May 13, 2013

appalachian trail days: love wins

I was so pleasantly surprised by the comments I received last week on my first AT Days post. I felt I was barely scratching the surface of what it is all about, but I could sense the enthusiasm and I knew you all really got it!

Last week, I talked about my friend Tina who hiked the Appalachian Trail, and explained the concept of trail magic. I briefly introduced the main event: Appalachian Trail Days.

As a whole, Trail Days is a weekend-long event in Damascus, Virginia. All sorts of vendors and businesses get together with the town to assure multiple offerings and a great overall experience for the hikers.

Hikers can pitch their tents in a camping area known as "tent city". They can relax, get some laundry done, enjoy the day's events and party all they want at night. They can enjoy much of what AT Days has to offer without ever setting foot onto First Baptist Church of Damascus (which they pass right by when walking the trail).

This is a free campsite started by FBC just last year in 2012. We couldn't enter tent city for pics without paying campground admission.


But most don't. Why?

This is where ministry kicks in, and by the grace of God, kicks "trail magic" up several notches.

The Beginnings of a Ministry

It all began well before Tina hiked the trail or I even knew there was a town called Damascus in my native Virginia: in 2001, to be exact. The church had recently held a seminar and invited one of the presenters to return during Trail Days to spend time with the hikers. They also grilled hot dogs over a bonfire in town to feed the hikers.

Fast forward to 2010. Tina has issued an invitation to return to Trail Days with her - as volunteers. It is less than a month until our wedding, but we are all for it, as are six others. Our team of nine heads down with no idea what to expect.

What has become a team tradition: a pic in front of "the hiker sign."
The hot dogs are still there. People spending time with the hikers are still there. Including one of note (though I will admit I had no clue who he was):

My teammate (and that year's roomie!) with Bobby Jon Drinkard from Survivor ! I never watched the show, but he was in two seasons.
In addition to these things, the ministry has grown throughout the years to offer so much more.

Love Wins

The motivation for this ministry comes from Matthew 25:35-36:

 " For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat. I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink. I was a stranger and you invited me in. I needed clothes and you clothed me. I was sick and you looked after me. I was in prison and you came to visit me." 

FBC made it their mission to meet all of these needs except for the final one. In 2007, a prison ministry was added to complete this idea.

Did you notice the brown shirts we are wearing? They have "Love Wins" written across the front. Unlike a summer camp, they are the same each year - because our mission is the same each year: love others.

We show them this by meeting any need we can, especially those mentioned in the above scripture.
  • There is a formal home cooked meal offered one night - free to 300 hikers who grab tickets in time. Hot dogs and other food and beverage are almost always available if you come looking for something to eat.
  • Showers are offered along with towels and toiletries.
  • Medical professionals offer free health screenings. (uninsured locals appreciate this as well!)
  • Also inspired by scripture, we wash/massage feet. Hikers are supplied with a clean, brand new pair of hiking socks.
  • Hikers are shuttled around town and back to a few other points on the trail- a welcome break from walking.
  • An outdoor worship service is held.
  • An internet cafe is available (free, of course!) for hikers to stay connected.
  • Fun things like eating contests (sheet cake and hot dogs) are held.
  • Hiking with your dog (that is quite common!)? We've got cookies for him/her too!
  • Hiker bags are available with light luxuries like snacks, gum, band aids, and of course, scripture.
  • And it keeps on growing...last year, I saw free haircuts for the first time. Gifts from FBC and partnering churches seem to increase year after year.
I briefly mentioned the prison ministry. It would be difficult to locate arrested hikers, but the church visits a prison in nearby Tennessee throughout the year to visit and hold worship service. One of those visits takes place during Trail Days. We weren't aware of this in 2010, we timidly went in 2011, and excitedly went in 2012. It sounds terrifying, but after the first trip, I think any of us would enthusiastically go again and again.

Our team of four in 2012. Of course, no photos allowed inside the prison.

I have a gazillion pictures and stories I could share that would make this one super long post (I'm sure it's getting there already!), so instead I will leave you with the presentation we shared with our church after last year's trip. Going with the "Love Wins" theme, the songs featured are "Love is Marching" by BarlowGirl, and  Jars of Clay's cover of "They'll Know we are Christians by our Love."


Thanks for sharing these memories with me! Tina will be going down this Wednesday for AT Days 2013. I only got to help by shopping with her for the hiker bag supplies, but I know God will use her greatly as well as all of the other volunteers He has sent. I pray Sean and I will return next year as it truly feels like home.

Don't hesitate to ask if you have any questions about the trip/ministry or anything even slightly related to it!
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I shared this story on Coastal Charm.